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Milk & Honey has been a part of Sebastopol's Main Street since opening in June of 1996, following the first Goddess Craft Faire. The shop came into being to serve the Goddess and Her community. Several years later the original owner, Jill, decided it was time to move on and sold the shop to Candra and Alyssa, who ran Milk & Honey with love and care for a decade. As life has a way of doing, these two big hearts were lead in other directions and that is how ownership of the shop came to Phoenix and her partner Gwion.
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At Milk & Honey we offer tarot readings, astrology readings, spiritual counseling, and stone healing sessions. Appointments are available at the shop in downtown Sebastopol or over the phone. All consultations are offered in a supportive and non-judgmental environment where you are the focus. We are also available for special events and parties.
Phoenix LeFae, the owner of Milk & Honey, is an intuitive tarot reader who has been reading for others since 1995. She is a tell-it-like-it-is reader, using her skills to guide you to a place of connection with your higher self. Phoenix offers specific and clear guidelines on how to move forward in the places you are stuck and helps to shed light on the shadows in your life.
Elvyra's roots are Keltic and Mediterranean. Her work is transpersonal, transmutational alchemy. She has trained with two hereditary Wiccan priestesses, a traditional navigational Kahuna, as well as several excellent specialized teachers over the last twenty two years. I have walked many paths to attain knowledge.
Pollyanna Costa is an Astrologer and Dreamworker offering practical intuitive guidance to support others in their path of personal growth and self-acceptance. She assists her clients in accessing a greater sense of clarity and connection to their own inner wisdom, tools, resources, gifts, and, challenges.
Reviews (19)
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William B.
Feb 16, 2021
I was in a really sad and wet way when i walked in (thanks for having your covid stand, also, btw), and i walked out feeling like i was just hugged by a big cashmere sweater on the beaches of Laguna.
Stacy H.
Aug 09, 2020
Wonderful surprise of a store. My daughters and friends enjoyed the crystals. I loved the ruby jewelry. The customer service was safe with Covid and extremely helpful. We will be back next time we are in Bodega Bay
Jeanne S.
Aug 09, 2020
I love every part of this store! The person helping us was exceptionally nice and understanding. They had very well priced ritual candles that you can make yourself, and they had a good range of materials to use for the candle as well. The store had a very nice selection of crystals, and their properties were listed alongside the price. They also have a good range of incense, and this was the first place I've found with reasonably priced metal incense burners. This store also had a very inclusive selection of tarot decks and deity statues. 100/10, I'd come here all the time if I lived here.
Valkyrie C.
Aug 25, 2019
Amazing people with an amazing atmosphere. If your looking for altar supplies or crystals or just some advice about your practice this is the place to go. Everyone here is so willing and able to answer and help. Love this place!
Arielle N.
Apr 14, 2019
I come here all the time. I love the books, crystals, ambiance, oracle cards, and most of all the people who work here! Shout out to Ariel! Also, I just got a reading from Polly! I had a great experience. Thanks again to the whole crew at Milk and Honey I would live here if I could. I always stay stocked up on Sensuous Beauty products (local Sebastopol company).

They have a rose and honey lip balm that keeps me feeling like the true goddess I AM. also they make a raspberry, rose and honey "Love Tincture" that I put in my coffee or tea. It's suggested to use as a aphrodisiac or fun in the bedroom. which I like too! So hey! I'm winning all around.;-) I literally keep both those items in my purse.
Sharon F.
Mar 09, 2019
This is a unique and lovely shopping experience. I rarely buy anything here as the prices are touristy-high, but they carry very unique and lovely items and jewelry.
J. L.
Jul 30, 2018
Had to stop by this store after our crabbing trip. I found such a beautiful lotus candle holder, various chakra candles and most importantly of all, my rose quartz bracelet. The cashier was so sweet and unpretentious. The shop is filled with crystals, tarot cards, even natural lube I will visit each time I pass by this cute little city!
Cynthia M.
Mar 03, 2018
I have taken my son here to shop for stones and he was helped by staff in his shopping. It's often rare to find staff that is knowledgeable of their store items. I love the selection of products they have. I highly recommend their hecate and Aphrodite products. I have taken an amazing Astrology class from this store. The staff are super sweet and they provide exceptional customer service. They make you feel welcomed. I'm definitely a returning customer and recommend to others.
Juliet B.
Mar 04, 2017
Overpriced - Classic tall candles in glass in varied colors are priced at $6.95 (find them for $1.99 MAX anywhere else) and Rider Taro decks are upwards of $26 (find them on Amazon for $17). Intrusive - Employee tailed me around the store explaining items/prices I had no interest in and asked several times what I would be doing with my purchase, going into a tirade about intentions during my ritual.

I didn't ask her opinion nor did I feel it was any of her business. Hustle - Employee asked several times if I would like a reading from a reader named Polly, who she also brought into the one-sided conversation about what I would be doing with the items I purchased. They have a decent selection, of which all items are insanely overpriced. Definitely will be taking my business elsewhere.
Monkicorn
Feb 21, 2017
AMAAAAAZING! So happy we went into this little store, left feeling so positive! The store staff was so pleasant and welcoming and personable! I even had a spur of the moment tarot reading :) They have so many great little "gems", I purchased a few gifts and a gift for me too :)
Lynda F.
Jun 21, 2016
Milk and Honey has been a wonderful resource for gifts, classes, and community ever since I moved here ten years ago. I feel right at home when I walk in, and I return often to find some new piece of jewelry or artwork to bring home with me. The new owners have taken a lot of care in choosing items that are not only beautiful, but also just what I've needed for birthdays, holidays, and other special occasions.

The staff is very friendly and helpful, often offering advice and support -- as well as a smile. We're so lucky to have this shop. (I was able to attend the 20th birthday celebration this past weekend, and from the smiles on everyone's faces, it's clear I'm not the only one who loves this shop!)
Wes H.
Jun 21, 2016
I've been shopping at Milk and Honey for 8 years and love it! The shop has a great vibe - super calm, friendly and available staff who are knowledgable about the products sold without being pushy. The new owners have brought in a lot of new products from local vendors. I used to mainly just buy jewelry there, but now there are tons of handmade bath and self care products, custom candles, art work by one of my favorite local artists, along with the standard books, journals, and jewelry that the previous owner stocked.

And the events! There are lots of great classes and gatherings going on, from tarot to women's entrepreneurship. I'm super pleased with the direction of the new store and hope to see it thrive for 20 more years!
Chrysanthemum A.
Feb 27, 2016
Milk&Honey is one of Sebastopol's many metaphysical shops. Unfortunately, their cafe is gone. It's a beautiful little place, with Goddess-themed artwork, incense, an altar. Their "erotica" chest is pretty tame (and not that well-endowed) They have lovely cards from an artist from nearby Cazadero who participates in Sebastopol's Goddess Crafts Faire in December. Milk&Honey is a perfumed garden.
Sara J.
Jan 07, 2016
Gorgeous shop with high quality items, excellent customer service and even better owners. Sebastopol is lucky to have such a high quality metaphysical shop in town.
Hayet C.
Oct 09, 2015
I love this local store! It's always been a great treat to go to M/H, all these years; and even moreso with Pheonix taking the reigns. Their artisans and vendors are enviable and I have yet to enter this store without making a purchase and pinching my pocket. I actually have to plan my visits, so I don't over spend it's that easy. The environment is incredible, the energy is powerful yet not overwhelming. and there are now tutorials and special events more regularly. We are so lucky to have this gem!
Evalena R.
Jul 02, 2014
Wonderful store with really beautiful offerings. I go here for all my gift giving needs and sometimes just to browse and enjoy the beautiful ambiance. Great jewelry selection, expanding variety of natural fiber clothes that are soft and flowing, and wonderful sacred objects for altar and ritual. The staff are so sweet, warm, friendly, and helpful. I always feel blessed to have gone into this store.
Victor G.
Mar 06, 2012
Milk n. Honey has the vibes of being a mysterious eastern/tibetan/indian gura type of thing. these many artificats and pics on display to support this: -jewelry, statues, candles, pendulums, herbal elixirs, art and journals, paintings. and an injection of western influence: coffee (no doubt to help pay the bills) brew ( m. 2.50) ecco caffe, freshly brewed -almost silky smooth, sliver of brashness. -ecco santa rosa based coffee drips: -should grab the ambiance of coffee while you can, -doubt you could get a great brew in the himalayans.
Fred V. F.
Jan 03, 2012
4 1/2 Stars I first discovered Milk & Honey store in 2007 while accompanying a friend who was going there in Sebastopol. There was clothing, jewelry, and items that mostly only women like, but there was also beautiful art, small figurines, artisan candles, and spiritually oriented books. I bought a hand painted wall piece my first visit. Subsequent visits over the next year or two was to bring my girlfriend to buy her gifts.

She loved some of the clothes as they were made from natural fibers, some fairly locally, and many had spiritually accented designs. After that relationship ended, I did not come back for another two years. It was in late 2010 that I stumbled back into Milk & Honey when meeting up with a new friend I met in my Divorce Support group who lived in Sebastopol.

It seemed like I lived a lifetime in those interim two years. During that time Milk & Honey changed owners and completely changed the floor plan of the store. There was much more art on the walls like a gallery, and there was now a Goddess Lounge Cafe that served incredible Botanical Elixirs that have to be tasted to be believed! That first year, 2010 to 2011, with my separation and divorce of my wife, was the worst of my entire lifetime.

I became so despondent that I was officially and medically disabled. Sometimes the only activity of my day was to make it over to Milk & Honey to drink my elixirs and talk with Alyssa (the owner). The Lounge area has a beauty and peacefulness that brought me great comfort. That combined with the elixirs, the beautiful paintings displayed everywhere, the intrinsic beauty of the store and merchandise, and most of all, the compassion of Alyssa made me feel I was receiving healing directly from God/Goddess there. Now, 2012, I am doing increasingly better and still go to Milk & Honey for the occasional elixir.

I did recently buy a beautiful small painting by Shiloh Sophia McCloud there and whose paintings are everywhere in Milk & Honey. As Alyssa is now a new mother, you would be very lucky indeed to see her at the store. Though every employee that I've met there is charming and beautiful too. I wish there were half stars available to the Yelp rating system, because I would give Milk & Honey 4 1/2 stars. Review 0008
Deb N.
Sep 19, 2006
A women centric/goddess store, with books in the area of poetry, wicca, self help, sexuality, fiction. Tarot cards, home decorations, artwork, stationary, soaps, lotions and jewelry. A great gift shop for your touchy, feely and earthy, granola friends. Some evening events. Street parking. Across the street from La Dolce Chocolates http://www.yelp.com/biz/l49af8VcTfYeEYOQ97Fr7A?hrid=5o5hmV0TThToTXlO0JuIkw